no soulmate in the world

There is no soulmate in the world. “Are you sure?” said one of my friend in the college, “but god has create one person for another person” said the other friend. I dunno when and where I got the fuckin’ sentence above. Dipikir secara logika, ya gini-gini mpi masih punya logika, salah satu scenario dari beribu scene didalem film ‘cinta brontosaurus’ ada benernya juga. Jumlah penghuni Mars (baca: cowok) lebih sedikit daripada penghuni bumi yang asalnya dari venus (baca: wanita), mana mungkin 1 orang punya 1 soulmate. Kalo gitu caranya, banyak cewek yang jomblo dong? Udah bisa ditebak kan betapa jom-blo-nya pemilik blog ini, jomblo+ terintimidasi dari film karya raditya dika.

Sebenernya emang bukan waktu yang pas buat nulis blog kaya ginian disaat tugas menuju uas mulai nyerbu kaya ujan menuju muka satu satunya ini. ditambah perut yang akhir akhir ini lebih terdengar bunyinya dibandign hari-hari sebelumnya. Ditambah lagi sama mikir dan bikin strategi buat beberapa hal ekstrim yang mau dilakuin sm my freaking friends latter. Tapi yam au gimana lagi, nasi sudah menjadi bubur, gak salah kan kalo mpi tambahon kecap, bawang goring dan krupuk biar gak mubasir juga. I do the unimportant thong while I have big freak and belated planning. Buku yang dibaca akhir-akhir ini juga udah mulai beda, dari yang tadinya buku terbitan bukune yang notabene kalian tau sendiri lah apa isinya jadi buku kuning tebal katangan cliff, ya apalagi kalo bukan TOEFL -___- tentang film juga. Mpi salah satu orang yang hobi nonton deh kyanya, apa sih yang suka ditonton anak 18 tahun?? Buat para teenager pasti tau kan, kalo nggak berasal dari marvel pasti action, sekarang?? PPT dan PDF utusan dari dosen-dosen broohhh.. kurang keren apalagi coba nih anggota power ranger semester 4 menuju semester 5 ini.

Sometime I feel that I am the real nerd person. You can see the inconsistent statement or you can say my nerd writing. In the first I have aim that I will tell you what I feel about soulmate, but in the end LOOOOk!! My writing ends with power ranger. I wanna say thankyou so much for people who still want to read my silly writing.

Last song: HiVi – orang ketiga

NO WORDS

Sampai saatnya perasaan yang harusnya bisa dikendalikan oleh pemilik hati tidak bisa dibuktikan.  Bagi kalian yang tau potongan-potongan lirik dari the script-no words. Beuh itu bener bener mpi banget buat saat ini.

NO WORDS

I could talk all day long about the news, givin' you the current affairs or my views.

I could talk all night long about a song, givin' you the pointers on where you're goin' wrong.

I could talk all year long about the net, sendin' you the links I think you haven't seen yet.

I'd like to tell you things that I think you've never heard but there are no words.

I could talk all day long about dreams, sewing up your heart so you never see a seam.

I could talk all day about politics, all of the corruption, clean hands, dirty tricks.

But what can I say about something that blows me away without it soundin' like another cliché?

From what I've seen and I've heard, when it comes to you, baby no, there are no, there are no words.

There are no words.

Yeah I swear this much is true, there ain't no word in this world that describes you.

I could talk all day long about life, after so many wars how we're all still alive.

I could speak all night long about the world, how it took me thirty years just to find one girl.

I could shoot shit for days all about guitars, a Gibson or a Fender, it depends on who you are.

But when I try to say somethin' that you never heard, there are no words.

I could burn your ear off all about space and why we have a moon, why the moon has a face.

If the earth is spinnin' why we all stay in place

Why we can't walk walk, it's gotta be a space race.

But what can I say that’s gonna blow her mind away?

Gotta write a classic not a throwaway.

All I’ve seen, all I’ve heard, when it comes to you there are no, there are no, there are no words.

There are no words.

Yeah I swear this much is true, there ain't no word in this world to describe you.

Yeah I swear this much is true, there ain't no word in this world that describes you.

There are no words to describe or define what’s inside you, your feeling, your vibe

Believe me I’ve tried to break you down to a science

(I) See you in my mind and I open my mouth and it’s silence

I can articulate a Shakespeare poem

Even though know I didn’t know him I can see where he was goin’

And where he’s comin’ from I can even catch his flow and then I think of you

I don’t know where this metaphor is goin’

Cuz there ain’t no words you can understand, only lovers can

You can ask the professor and the madman

If they couldn’t find the words, no one can

All I’ve seen, all I heard

When it comes to you there’s just no, just no words

Disaat itu juga kejenuhan dateng, gak tau mau ngomong apa lagi. Lagu yang agak menggambarkan perasaan pemilik blog ini lah buat sekarang.

response of "DESIREE'S BABY" by: Kate Chopin

After read and find out about the story I can tell that story was based on the true story of the author. Desiree’s baby describes physical realism has many experienced by people during this era was the omission of slavery. This story tells about racism and slavery as opposed to the problems of love. That makes me wonder is why Armand would prefer to keep the his price than his love for children and his wife. On the other side of the story describes the time so dramatic for people because at the time they are free from the bondage of slavery where selum completely annihilated, over a period of time that many people were placed or seen as lower class society. Husband of Desire, Armand, was a wealthy nobleman, he had a large plantation in Louisiana at the time. He believes that he must protect his family's social status. More Armand also gave social theory in the story. Social theory is interpreted in the redirect through the thought process based on rationality and logic.

The story also brought the problems associated with racism. Racism is one of the points the problems occurred in the life of Armand. View Armand against slavery changed, as she is convinced that her son would be white. But it turns out his son's skinned Americans to African (not white, a little black), because it becomes so angry and he shut himself away from his family as a result of it. In my opinion the problem skin/racism should be relied upon for the barometer of honor, because basically the differences that make this life be beautiful and colorful. The story describes the essence of pride (proud to be a social status especially of race). Armand chose to protect his family's reputation also social status by making his wife and children to stay at home and do not mingle with outsiders when he found out that his son was born of African descent he considers that of African descent (black) is usually made into a slave/black people usually have a hard character and lead to acts of anarchy. Excessive pride will affect the values and morals. Because when we put forward the pride especially proud of a caste and the throne pertaining to race it at least can make us arrogant and reduce a sense of mutual respect and tolerance. As what was said by prof. A. Tafsir said that if we find more aesthetic than ethics then it could easily lowering moral and create chaos. We can analogize aesthetics as “race pride” and ethics we analogize as ”moral”.

The problem of racism is a problem that is so sensitive that divisions and unrest could occur and the resulting problem of racism primarily because of differences in skin color. But it will be good in the lead a life as a servant of the Lord, we should be able to coexist and receive the difference as a beautiful thing, because God never taught us to mutually hostile and hated because of differences, thus the existence of a difference we can learn many things, we can learn a lot through the most basic distinction, we can learn about the nature and the mutual respect and tolerance. From the differences also we can learn a lot of culture because it clear between the black race and the white race has its own culture and the cultures of each has its own uniqueness and uniqueness to the cir typical. Why i ' m more focus on learning and cultural differences, taken from because the secret of a nation that there are in culture as what has been said Ki Hadjar Dewantara “ destroy the culture and many people is easily to be destroyed “.

How to be a good husband

How to be a good husband

Every wife loves a good husband. That is NORMAL, and now I will give you some secret about what step you have to choose when you want to be a good husband.

1. Woke your wife in the early morning for inviting her prayer to the mosque. Because you have to know that every woman wants a pious husband. The pious husband is the husband who always reminds his wife as his congregation to do action with a great reward.

2. Don’t do any physical abuse in family. Because in addition to it will cause problems in the household, it can also ensnare you into the legal process can be detrimental to your own results.

3. Don’t comment about what dress you will wear when you will go to work. Because in common, the wife hates it when you comment about dressing in the morning. The task of wife in the morning just cooks the breakfast, so you don’t comment about the bad dress or the clutter dress in the bedroom.

4. Keep the stuffs that have been taken in its place again. For example if you take comb on the dresser, it means you must save it again on the dresser. Is unlikely that such a small thing remains to be done by the wife

5. Arrive on time and with a cheerful countenance and brought gifts. A wife would be happy if when her husband came home she brought food every day, because indirectly it is a form of attention to the wife's husband.

6. Invite and allowing children to play during the weekend. Because on a typical day the children will be spending more time with the mother or the baby sitter, day weekend ever because it means all the workers off, became a liability for the fathers or husbands to encourage their children to play.

7. Smile, smile with sincere of course, not a smile with the others meaning. Because in the fact a woman will be happy when they look the man give them sweet smile every meet. This will increase the level of harmony in the family.

8. Make a surprise. Woman likes getting a surprise. Make your time as ‘many’ for giving some surprise to your wife, if you feel a level of their love was decreased.

9. Listen to her. Let your wife talked everything and listen here. When she was talking her feeling and she wants you to give your response and you just say “what? Why?” DON’T DO THAT because your wife will be bad moodand angry.

10. Give her a forehead kiss. If a husband look his wife annoyed or do something different, better you are as husband can make her happy, and one way is to kiss her forehead. uhh so sweet..

11. Be patience. You must be patience if one day your wife get angry because beside be patience is piece of faith, it is will make your family better. Do something with sincerity and with love not with forced.

12. You have to be honest person. Because the woman will assume all of your statement LIE if you ever tell a lie. You will feel free when you tell your wife the real statement. 

I hope you can be a good husband after you read the tips...

minggu sore

Astaga. Sore macam apa ini. Kapas warna putih, gigi warna putih, susu warna putih dan sapi minum susu. Entah apa yang dipikirkana otak ini. Am I still have any brain? I don’t care about it.

Langit kelabu memang bukan telak tanda akan turunnya hujan, tapi kali ini iya. Disini hujan besar, pukul 3 sore.  Sudah dikira kaki ini tidak mungkin ingin beranjak pindah jauh dari ranjang tempat badan gembrot ini merebah. Tik tok tik tok hujannya mulai surut, dari suara mengalir berubah menjadi hanya gemericik. Berubah. berbeda dengan kaki yang belum  kuasa untuk melangkah atau hanya mengenai benda berbentuk kotak, putih dan dingin ini. “kakak kakak, anterin bunda ke apotik beli makan” sejak kapan keluarga saya makan dengan lauh pauh dibeli dari apotek? I don’t care. Oke ini saatnya dimana kakikku tidak hanya diam dbalik selimut. Ayoo lets moving.

Sudah menjadi kebiasaan seorang wanita untuk menatap sebuah kaca dimanapun itu dalam beberapa detik atau hitungan menit. Begitupun saya. Menggunakan kerudung perlahan mencoba tersenyum sebaik mungkin, secantik mungkin berfikir kalau-kalau saya beretemu seseorang yang saya kenal di sepanjang jalan. Brrmmm, motor saya gas sampai tiba tepat di sebrang apotek, ya tempat yang menjadi tujuan kami. Tanpa ada yang saya kenal sepanjang perjalanan yang berarti tidak saya gunakan training tersenyum selama beberapa menit di kaca tadi. Hingga sampai detiknya saya menyebrangi lebar bahu jalan antara motor dan apotek. Tiiiiiiit Tiiiittt.. cekiiiit terdengar suara oli rem yang mungkin sudah mulai kering dalam motor. Hampir fiuhh. Sedetik saja pengendara motor itu membuat suara rem berbunyi, matilah sudah saya. Memang salah saya yang hanya melihat sisi kiri dalam penyebrangan itu, harusnya saya tahu sisi itu ada 2, kanan dan kiri. Secara langsung dan reflex otot muka atau kepala, entah apa iti yang bergerak menuju asal suara rem tadi berasal, berasal dari motor yang hampir menghantam badan satu-satunya ini.

WaaaaaaaaaaaaW. Who is he?? God ini nyata? Apa suara tadi benar berasal dari motor yang ada di sisi kiri saya saat ini? dia. Stuck, sakit tidak, pusing tidak, kaget tidak. Tapi kenapa badan ini terasa lebih dari semua itu. Otak muai membeku kakipun ikut membeku bukan karena benda berbentuk kotak, putih dan dingin tadi, melainkan karena sosok berjaket coklat yang ada dibalik stang motor hijau.  Saya kenal dia ya sangat mengenalnya, tapi kenapa saya tiba-tiba lupa sama preparation senyuman tadi? Kenapa tiba-tiba hilang. Mana niat yang tadi saya paparkan didepan kaca selama bermenit-menit.

Mungkin belum saatnya senyuman ini saya lontarkan pada seseorang yang memang saya kenal, berada dijalan dan hampir membuat satu luka lagi.

HERE WE ARE

gue mau coba sekali galau di blog laaah... gak rame kan kalo idup ketawa terus. lu kira ini dunia dunianya spongebob yang tiap pagi bilang "aku siap aku siap aha aha aha aha"?? bukan beeroohhh..

oke. galau. galau karena apa? kita mulai galauin diri sendiri aja ya.

noviyanti anggraeni. syapa sih gue??? orang yang bisanya ketawa ketiwi selama dosen cuap-cuap di depan kelas. yang demennya ngomongin orang pas objeknya gak ada di sekitar. yang bisanya cuman maen UNO setiap pulang ngampus. paling banter gue diem dikosan nyetrika atau nyuci. hmmm udah gak beda jauh sama pembantu. yang bikin kecaprukan gue bertambah adalaaaah temen temen yang sama sama ada di tingkatatan mahasiswa "weird". intan mustika sari, Lusy ayu karlina, lelly mursyid, mahesa ilyas, nadiya fatimatuttakiyah.

uuuuhhh kalian (para pembaca blog) bisa liat betapa "lengkap"nya persahabatan ini. dimulai dari gue sendiri, cewek 18 tahun tapi udah semester 4 karena bejo yang bisanya nengok sana sini pas lagi UTS(writing), intan mustika sari yang bejo+pintar mungkin karena dia sering minum tolak angin+antaning secara bersamaan, lusy ayu karlina yang demennya telat masuk kelas yang udah diperkirakan dia berangkat dari rumah jam 1 ketika mata kuliah pertama dimulai jam setengah 1, lelly mursyida yang katanya punya anak tuyul yang dia bawa kemana-mana, maesah ilyas yang agak mending cewek lugu baik tapi gampang marah kalo pas dibagi duit penghasilan hasil jualan bunga, dan yang terakhir ada nadiya fatmatutakiyah yang kadang nyebelin kalo pas lagi enak-enak nonton atau maen uno dia nyeletuk "solat hey solat" hemmm.. 

HERE WE ARE......

dan judulnya udah gue ganti, bukan galau tapi curhat dan ngasih tau kalian para blogger kalo kami ada, kami nyata dan kami masih hidup.

filed and succeesed in business.

FAILED

1. Maybe they didn’t have sufficient funds to support on going business development. So the management and growth of the business should be hindered because of the lack of fresh funds, and ultimately the business will sink in the middle of the competition other franchise businesses.

2. Mistakes are choosing a business partner or franchisee candidates. So many investors did not understand the business, and has no experience in the franchise world join a partnership. As a result, the focus of the franchisor to develop its business only will be split, and the time consumed just to assist its partners.

3. Don’t  have enough experience in the business partnership. So the partnership offered by the franchisor is not ready to compete with others and can not last long in the competition.

4. They does not have a large operational funding. Surely this pattern to be one big mistake franchise businesses, however, because the franchisee require reserve funds to meet all the needs of its business operations.

5. Ineffective communication between the franchisaler and buyer or consument. Especially for partners that have a location far enough away from franchisornya, so that each party is not up to date with the latest information from the business being operated.

6. Don’t have a support system in each region. It is no wonder that many franchisees are deciding collaboration on the way, because they do not get help from the franchisor when experiencing difficulties i1. Selling each unit of product by profit

SUCCESED

To be succeed in business today, you need to be flexible and have good planning and organizational skills. Many people start a business thinking that they'll turn on their computers or open their doors and start making money only to find that making money in a business is much more difficult than they thought. You can avoid this in your business ventures by taking your time and planning out all the necessary steps you need to reach to achieve success. Read on to find out how.

1. To be successful in business you need to be organized. Organization will help you complete tasks and stay on top of things to be done.

2. understand the risks and rewards, because the key to being succesful is taking calculated risk to help our business grow. This knowledge will support you to take the kinds of calculated risk that can generate tremendous rewards for business.

3. be creative, always be looking for ways to improve your business and to make it stand out from the competition. Recognize that you don’t know and be open to new ideas and new approach.mean that we are going immediately start making money. It takes time to let people know who we are, so stay focused on achieving your short-term goals and give the rest time to come together on its own.

4. provide great service. There are many succesful business that forget to provide costumer, but if you want your business increase we have to provide better service our customers, they will be more inclined come to us in the next time they need something instead of going to our competition.

5. Be consistent. Consistency is key of component to make money in business. We havr to consistently keep doing the things necessary to be successful day in and day out. This will create positive term habits. That will help you to make money over the long term